The End of Indy

As my time in Indianapolis draws to an end, I surprise myself by finding it hard to imagine never coming back.

My little room in the castle is filled with my things: rose petals, craft supplies (from writing letters to the Prince), half-burned candles. And what a great place to live! – the castle, where I work with and meet so many colorful friends, is five minutes from the mall, and a half-mile from Walmart. Also, the aggressive driving habits I developed in Kennesaw have faded since I live away from interstates.

Things I’ll miss:
-Watching the sun rise from the treadmill on the second story of the YMCA (see cover picture).
-The grand old trees on the castle grounds.
-Snowflakes drifting down in the sunlight against my castle backdrop.
-Running to the mall for Starbucks coffee; discovering the joys of a Raspberry Mocha.
-Watching the giant red squirrels play outside, even when we’re all snug indoors.

There’s been much to love about being an Indy princess. As strong as Atlanta’s siren song calls me home right now, thoughts of leaving here are … a little sad. Only six weeks, but it was enough time to settle in, enjoy, love, invest, live.

When I got here, I wasn’t sure if I’d say this at the end… But I’ll miss you, Indy.

Finding Shelter

Here is a work story. I’m blessed to be able to meet all kinds of people in my job as a traveling leasing specialist… but some of these people I take especially to heart. Here is one such woman.

She came in out of the snow with a whirl of flakes falling to the rug around her. She was reed-thin in her long cream-colored sweater dress, suede booties, and heavy coat. Her straight black hair was braided under a white stocking cap; she wore Native American jewelry. Everything she wore looked like proudly, beautifully preserved thrift store finds. Nothing about the way she dressed or carried herself was the same as the people I’d seen through the day. Her eyes were aquamarine and penetrating. Around me, I imagined I felt something shift, felt myself tilting into some new, imaginary and magical world.

“Hello, I’m Lori,” she said, smiling sweetly and extending a thin, elegant hand. As I sat down and began talking to her about what kind of apartment she was looking for, she began unfolding her story: a series of bad decisions and worse luck culminating in a terrible living situation with no real lease agreement… But her young son was finally coming to stay with her that weekend. She needed an apartment so he could visit her safely. She was going to do whatever it took to have him with her.

It was my job to listen, I was trained to listen, but I also heard her story on a fundamentally human level because I, too, am someone who needs a roof over my head at night. We all do. Suddenly it wasn’t just another job: this was a mission to fill a basic human need for housing.

Re-telling me about her checkered past, Lori shook her head doubtfully over her application (“I just hope I can get approved,” she said) but finished it with resolve and vanished back out into the snow. The next few days she and I both, along with our office, all struggled toward the same goal: getting Lori approved.

Through all the obstacles, she persisted. Always kind, always thrift-fabulously dressed, she called worked on issues and called and visited us and called us again until she got the answers she was looking for. And then, by the most brilliant of miracles, Lori moved in Saturday.

She did it! We did it!

It’s been a long time since I’ve seen someone show such beautiful charm, sweet tenacity and fierce desperation all rolled into one. If I’d done nothing but help move Lori into an apartment, I would be satisfied with my tour of Indianapolis. Helping her was, well, worth having this whole job.

Exploring Downtown: Massachusetts Avenue!

Because of winter’s cloudy skies, Indy doesn’t see many sunsets this time of year. But last night, after a day when the temperature reached the sixties, I drove off exploring into the most beautiful sunset yet. Off the bridge on the highway near the Columbus exit, the sun sank flaming orange into the horizon and all around the color filled half the sky. Lincoln Brewster sang,

You remind me who I am,
I’m made new.

I set my GPS for Starbucks downtown because I wanted to get some good sit-down time with my journal after walking the streets a bit. The buildings rose around me and traffic crawled. Over the storefronts were chic lofts that must rent for a small fortune. People of all descriptions were out looking for a good time, talking and laughing, friendly on the sidewalks.

Parking was surprisingly easy and cheap! I got out of the car and took a deep breath. Finally – I had made it to Massachusetts Avenue! Or “Mass Av” as everyone abbreviates it. But setting out on foot in a new downtown area, especially alone, feels so awkward every time. The best way is to just DO it. Jaywalk a couple times ’til you feel comfortable with traffic. Amid the honking horns I began to feel more relaxed.

The streets I explored had a bit of everything. I popped into a fashion boutique and talked to gorgeous Christina. “I just do PR and marketing, especially online,” she said, but laughed and admitted she shouldn’t underestimate her worth when I pointed out the difficulty of truly great marketing.

My favorite found thing was an exploding clock in an artists’ shop… Out of my budget for now, but such a beautiful piece of handmade artwork!

The evening wore on and finally I turned into Starbucks with my journal. Sitting at the counter with the bubbly Jackie (relaxing with a book after catering for 250 the night before), I could watch the city go by. There wasn’t any hurry or urgency, just strolling and socializing. Indianapolis reminds me of the south in that respect. It may be colder here, but it’s not unfriendly.

You’re cool, Indy. You do laid-back even on Saturday nights downtown.

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Amid the Falling Snow

How I remember sleepless nights
When we would read by candlelight,
And on the windowpane outside
A new world made of snow.

A million feathers falling down,
A million stars that touch the ground,
So many secrets to be found
Amid the falling snow.
— Enya, “Amid the Falling Snow”

With the candles lit, good books beside me, and my perfectly marinaded chicken tiki masala going in the oven… Let it snow!

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